Compostulating With The Times

Sunday, March 28, 2010

PhysicalSchizms

As requested..




I can't remember if I've posted this picture before, sorry:(
Kinda funny one, of a group of some of my favourite kids, 1985. Leo's body, Rainy's head, Sparky's ample, dependable butt. The best boys, evaR.


Picture Two.

Riding is a scary sport. Just hopping up there takes an act of courage, ya know. Or foolhardiness, if you're not interested in hopping up there. It's always been something we automatically admire people for.

OH, You RidE?? Oooh, you are so brave. It's just inherent. A built in reflex by people who don't ride. But then you have the youth of our culture, still fearless, and their snickers at our pale faces can be daunting, to say the least. That's why it's preferable to find beginner classes, in the beginning, with a zero audience of sneerage.

I always did my best to schedule the mature people for low population at the barn times. It's just nicer for the students. Now, I'm not saying no audience, and after awhile, you should be enjoying yourself enough that you can give out a belly laugh when you start thinking too much again.

That's the hugest problem with the mature rider, their brains. Yes, their bodies too, but mostly, brains.
Sorry:)

I read in Discover about athletes brains, and how their brain activity quiets, when they are performing athletic tasks.
Take away from that, they don't THINK about what they are doing, they just Do.

Now, if you've tried following my endless ramblings from the bitter beginning, you'll remember that on the ground, you should be carrying yourself like a rider. Your posture should always be good, your balance square over yourself, whatever that self looks like. That's what centering (with a genuine cower to Sally Swift) is all about. Do mini-exercises to keep yourself fit.

Put your left heel down while driving, your right, while idling in traffic. Stretch and flex the muscles that always scream at you after riding. If you cannot balance over yourself, you won't, on horseback.
(coughdancingcoughHelps)

You're thinking, How does that help when I'm up there? Riding should be an unconscious act, of following and flowing over/above the ground, directing the river of flight energy beneath you.
Stop thinking about it. Just do it. Lucky people, riding horses!

If you stay "over" yourself, you won't be going anywhere, gravity/ground-wise. At least, you shouldn't be, if you're riding one of my old schoolies, who'd never take a nasty step on a beginner.

Hours and miles. As the trust builds, so does the confidence.

Thanks for the inspiration, all my readers! The two of you can really make me smile:)

I am almost ashamed to post my old hatless pics now, after the latest tragedy. Maybe I should replace my head with a StickFigure's, I wouldn't feel quite so guilty.

I'm a re-rider, pretty much, in this pic, having been off about? 5 years at this point. I'm absolutely aware of my own safety, though. This old fugly gray and I had an understanding. I fixed his bridle, and he never ever scared me.

Good deal. Oh, my heart raced a bit, once, we were hacking up the driveway in the spring, it was chilly, wind-up-your-butt type weather. Gray twinkled-toed. I was wearing a hat. ALWAYS wear a hat. Especially when the wind's up your butt:)

I was STARTED scared, after all, at 11 years old. Check out picture two, up there. I am ready to/defended against falling off, because horses kept dumping me. Turns into a vicious cycle, in a way.

But riding the SchoolMaster GoLightly, unscared me:) Horses can do anything to us, you know. Thank heavens they aren't carnivores, has always occurred to me.

Riding is a scary sport. Well, of Course it is!
amen.

To Horses!

16 comments:

nccatnip said...

Frist!!!!!

Love that grey, GL. You are a handsome couple.

kestrel said...

Well humph. I am not first. Pouting...;)
I've seen way too many people scared away from horses because they were being told that their fear of the unruly brute they were riding was irrational. Hey what?! Teenage students have bodies that are changing on an hourly basis, and then some parents and trainers get the bright idea that taking their safe friend away and putting them on an outlaw is going to somehow help them progress. Horses are pretty logical, people not so much!

Sherry Sikstrom said...

Fear is Ok , to a point . I think the best antidote is more knowledge and more time/coaching
And as you said balane on the ground before you balance on a horse .I was once told that you loose 30% control form the ground to the horse back , so I want 130% on the ground cause I ain't giving up an inch!

horspoor said...

I don't know about fear being okay. I find, at least for me fear screws me up. Respect, now I can get behind that. Horses are large, fast and they react, they don't tend to stop and try and reason the situation out. They react with a jump, a spook or bolt...then they regroup to see what 'got' them.

I try to get across to my fearful riders that fear isn't the answer. It isn't going to help them, it will hinder them. They get tight. They hold their breath, or breathe shallow and quick. Those things make many horses edgy.

The tense edgy horse is just waiting for the monster to appear. It can be a bird, a dark spot in the arena or someone walking by. Don't borrow trouble. Stay calm, breathe low down in your diaphram, don't hold your breath, don't ride in a defensive position. Sit up, look where you're going and breathe.

Even if the horse feels tight, you just stay soft, looking ahead and focused on where you're going, what you are doing. Try your best to ignore the worry in the horse. If the horse believes you're fine with everything, they are far more likely to just go along and forget about their worry.

nccatnip said...

Are those stick people asian? What's with the chinese spam?

GoLightly said...

I kilt it, NCC. Then I stomped on it, and then Flip peed on it.

I think it's gone.

yuch.

Cut-N-Jump said...

DROP YOUR DAMN HANDS!

Sorry, I had to get that out to the stick rider.

That's another thing about how people react. They clutch and go into the fetal mode. Hands come up and they hang on for dear life. Legs tighten around the barrel. The horse may react by speeding up and looking for the release.

Now you have problems. I agree with the re-rider quiet time lesson plan. Sometimes we all need a bit of quiet time, no audiences and nothing to stir the horse up for us. A chance to focus on quieting ourselves and our own minds.

Stop thinking about riding and just do it? That's one of my biggiest issues. The day that all happens? I just hope I remember it all.


Beautiful grey horse there, GL. I am a sucker for greys and bays.

GoLightly said...

Does anyone else get the impression that CNJ is against StickFigures?
She keeps YELLing at them.

Poor Sticks, they have VERY short fore and aft arms. Mare isn't moving.

I know, they REALLY shouldn't be on her neck.
Poor mare:(
She looks so sad in the third pic;)

I'll lop off their arms, shall I?
I was going to empty their heads, anyway.

Cut-N-Jump said...

Was I yelling at them before? I don't remember if I did. Any guess why the hands caught my eye above so much else? Yeah, I hear it a lot too. Drop your hands, drop your hands, drop your hands, drop your hands... This could be a recording. Even if it was, I may still need to drop my hands.

MNaef said...

Nice post GoLightly :) I liked it.

It is funny what scares us Amateur Adults (distinction, a few of us have decided that an "Adult Amateur" usually had lessons as a kid, an Amateur Adult started behind the curve)

My buddy has a brilliant packer, saves her over jumps and will do anything for her. She is a very nice rider with a lot of experience. She is terrified to take him trail riding. He is quiet on trails, she is still afraid. I had a KNOWN bolter, who decided periodically to just exit the ring, and I took her to everywhere and back, alone and with others. Rivers, mountains, cliffs, ravines, waterfalls. All good. After 30 days training under saddle.

I get shaky scared when a lesson horse runs three strides out of a jump, exuberance from a layoff or whatever else...completely trashes the rest of my ride that day. In the other corner, regularly took my ex-chuckwagon horse on gallops, wherever and whenever the footing was safe. I LOVED the gallops, even though he needed a run-out to come back. Usually about three strides.
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Now I am actually looking for a horse who is what the ad says it is. Beginner safe, old campaigner, etc. It's pretty darn pathetic what people are ready to call beginner-safe. I spent 45 minutes schooling someone's "beginner" horse yesterday because he "doesn't like to trot." Pacey jiggy walk or gallop only. Had a nice trot and a nice working canter trapped in there. What would posess someone to sell that to a beginner? The horse knew every $%%$%$ evasion in the book and it took everything I had learned from my projects to school that beast.

I went out and LOOKED for projects before. I knew they'd be work, but half the fun was watching them turn into good horses. They carted my crap-ass around, and I STILL advertised them ALL as "for experienced riders only." I also sold them all for a FRACTION of their market price so that I would be sure they were going TO EXPERIENCED RIDERS ONLY. I guess I have never experienced before the way these sellers are willing to sacrifice the safety of others to make a little cash. I mean, if someone WANTS a project, give 'er, you can't protect people who won't protect themselves. But if they are being honest about their abilities and come to you asking for something beginner-friendly...that's just wrong to plunk them on a runaway freight train.

You want to know where fear starts? It's getting on a horse who runs away with you after being told it is safe for the grandkids (4 and 6 years old) That's pretty much guaranteed to plant a deep seed of doubt in you about your own abilities.

MNaef said...

Forgot to add,

Doubt is the worst enemy of the Amateur Adult, it is the root of fear, the root of that tense stance and that heart-pounding apprehension.

I've had opportunity to think on this, of late. It is very difficult for people who grew up with horses to understand.

The worst thing you can do for your adult riders, as a coach, is to plant a seed of doubt in them that undermines whatever confidence they had. It is quite possible that you will never be able to recover that confidence.

Kids are resilient, and have boundless faith in themselves. Adults know better.

You are right, GL, that our brains are bad (or we think too much, or whatever) ... but thinking isn't the root. Doubt is.

GoLightly said...

Doubt = thinking.

Jeeez.
(wipes off blackboard vehemently)

I told ya, empty your brain.

See, it's really easy for me;)
Mine's half-empty anyway.

We'd have had a blast, SB. I've got ex-students who still tear up when they think of Sparky.
Always positive, always having a run at it, was my attitude with the adults.
I had an ahem, older lady, my age now, and she was Too insistent on jumping. Wealthy, daughter rode, you know the type. "Of course, I HavE the paddock boots & the helmet, let me at that little combination."

Ol' Johnny did his best, but she just wasn't ready, (she'd been riding, what, two-three months? NOT ready. I did warn her, I did) and off she came, as gently as Johnny could do it. Johnny couldn't have jumped any flatter:)
She was fine, annoyed at herself, and listened to me after that.

Okay, back to the beginning.
Brains (that red circle on top of your shoulders) generate thoughts. Thoughts generate doubt.
Or...
NoT.

Best of luck in your search, SB! The right ones are out there!
I hope, anyway.

Hugs and scritches to y'all:)

Cut-N-Jump said...

13th! for you there GL. Nothing to be worried about.

GoLightly said...

14th somewhat with relevance..
What was I just typing about??
Western-IN-EnglishLand

autumnblaze said...

OMG... Am I commenting?

This never worked on my crackberry before! Sorry, I am excited.

You're spot on you know. The falling off cycle... Very real tough to break when in it.

I forced (conditioned?) myself to stop thinking. I told myself it wasn't that scary. Started to believe it and stopped falling off. Fear/worry cripples me. I anticipate when I think and he's a raw nerve. They're way more dangerous that way.

nccatnip said...

Waves at AB*****