One of the many books I read was "Effective Horsemanship", by ? Jackson, darn it was there a minute ago. The book was pretty much incomprehensible to me for the first 115 years that I owned it. Then, I rode GoLightly. Lightly opened, and explained the book. Almost word for word.
Today, as usual, I go to mugs blog, and she's describing what I finally "got" from a perfectly well-trained SchoolMaster. Truly lining yourself up with your horse. Riding your horse square to where you want to go, even when on a circle. Having the touch and the timing to sculpt and create what you want. Lining up. Yes.
It's all in the touch and the timing. The touch, not the yell. The timing means everything.
I'd been listening to the great riders write for many years as well. Bill Steinkraus, George, Wynmalen, Pat Smythe & Flanagan, Muesler, as many books as I could beg, borrow or birthday. More are in the "office", but I won't cheat:) Christilot, Gordon Wright, so many, I read them over and over. And over. Watching great riders helped. Riding a lot helped. Still something was missing.
The trainer I worked for at GoLightly's barn's was/is Peter Stoeckel, and he had trained with Michael Matz. He's still training and showing today. Haven't seen he & his wife Debbie in centuries. He's still pinning at the shows. Peter looked and rode like Matz. I learned a ton just watching this guy ride. It was very difficult:) :)
Anyway, after Peter took over the barn, a few months later GoLightly became available for riding until he could be sold. I was probably pretty obvious to Peter, in my interest in the big bay. I don't remember how I actually ended up with him, but I did, as a "lease". I was always really shy with people, don't forget.
A very cheap lease, considering the quality of training in this horse.
GoLightly could jump a Modified Grand Prix Course, and he would have tried his darndest. He could do derby classes. He could do two-tempis, if you asked him right. I never asked for one-tempis (flying change every stride) he was a jumper, after all. But he could do them. He could travel perfectly straight, which I'd only very rarely felt in previous horses. Mostly badly trained horses I was fixing. I was always having to bring them back on "line". GoLightly's tack was a plain, D-Snaffle, and a cavesson. That's all you ever really need. I knew that, but he showed me why. He carried his bit like an egg in his mouth. Gently. He traveled in a line, that you shaped with your body and your direction.
I think those lessons I gave his early beginner owner were the first time he'd EVER been "banged" in the mouth. He looked so confused, but he held his head high, which helped. His early owner was pretty light and weak. (in the head, did I say THAT)
He was six years old, bright bay, 16.3 imported IrishBred, Swiss trained, wonder beast. He was worth $30,000.00 when I was leasing him, this is years ago. He was worth every single cent. And more.
All the movements I'd read about, watched, half-pass, renvers & travers for warm-ups, just by following where we both wanted to go. OH, ThaT's what that is! The doors of my mind flew open, that first day I sat his back. It had taken me awhile, but I did get there. Thanks to GoLightly.
It was all in the touch, and the timing. The straight channel that exists between the two beings, that can then become one. Whoa, heavy.
I don't think this is finished yet..
Oh, and a P.S. for those who wonder, an apology. I'm great at that.
Dammit, I am a stubborn, slightly contrite red-head. Of course, I'm in my down cycle right now. Here's my explanation, and I'll stick to it. I wrote it not long after a Dr. finally "labeled" me.
(With Apologies to the Non Hyper-thyroid)
I can worry about just about everything & feel incredible anger & despair & sorrow in my bad moments. I can also feel incredible joy and elation, in the good. It makes me a bit difficult to live with sometimes, speaking for myself. My energy levels are down, way down, up, then way up. I'm a real time PITA. It's been a part of my nature for as long as I can remember. I can blurt out just about anything, it's outrageous sometimes. I admit it, freely:) Since I was a kid, I've been a blurter.
I'm now officially mentalpausal too. I have no intention of taking medicine to cure that which "ails" me.
I don'tthinkthere'sanythingwrongwithme:)
But I do feel silly, sometimes. I wish I could "take it back". I will continue to lurk, on the mugs. But I feel too damn silly to say anything. No great loss, right? That way, I won't worry about offending anyone. I hate doing that. It's in my nature. I will bitch on my own blog, only. I promise, mostly...
Hmmm, I must be food deprived. Even I have lost what I'm stumbling over saying:)
Dinner's almost ready.
11 comments:
I hope its not finnished my friend I will hound you...
Some horses just have IT don't they ,that special something thst speaks to you from the moment you find them
Fern, I've been editing this darn thing for the last hour.
Thanks a LOT!
:)
No,I mean,you may have to re-read it, 'cause I just changed it a bit, and again, and again.
Editing should be done in wordpad, but I don't seem to think right that way.
I mean, thanks for reading.
(red-faced, scuffling feet)
Is it ok, for now?
(collapses from food deprivation)
Its great ,go eat!
It is wonderful. While I cannot even attempt to understand the complexities you describe in riding GL- never had a lesson in my life, all the lesson $$$ went to the kids. But I get the connection with him- heavenly when you get that connection no matter what you are doing.
And I (BOLD UNDERLINED) get the cycles and outbursts- I am exactly the same way. Had a boss one time descibe me as having no filter between the brain and the mouth-
I used to wonder if my cycles were manic depression- nope. Maybe the fact I am a Pisces? Who knows, I just figure I am passionate- I live and love hard, give freely but can hate and be as stubborn with the same intensity. Still waiting for the menopausal monkey wrench- 50+ with no sign in sight- wonder if my world will implode.
Hey, we like you too!
Maybe that's my problem...when I write my blogs and comments, I never go back and edit. I just let it fly. I am quite difficult to offend, and I sometimes have that issue where I don't understand why people are all up in arms about something that seems so innocuous to me.
Bitchy impulsive stubborn redheads unite!
NCC, it sneaks up on you, you won't even notice until the hot flashes soak your sheets:)
Something to look forward to.
Srsly. Everyone has a different experience with the "change" too.
Yours might be no big deal. It might even have already started:)))) You may be so darn healthy, your body is thrilled.
Gawd you sound like me:) The mouth/brain connection is such a challenge.
My husband says stuff just "falls" out of his mouth. yeah, me TOO!.
I also can (scarily) completely "turn it off" sometimes. No emotions, well, at least overtly. Probably where my chest pains came from, when I was finally diagnosed. Let it OUT!!
Blatant:)
My wonky thyroid had something to do with my general nuttiness, I now, do, believe. Don't, even, care:)
You write really great! I write best when I don't "stop" the flow, too.
I just get all my paragraphs all mixed up, sometimes. If I don't rearrange, I make even less sense..
My husband can't understand why I get so pissed when he interrupts me. Breaking my concentration makes me stop & re-wind, and re-sort. Start all over, sometimes.
Women are circular. Very circular.
Very drawn to the rhythyms & the spin of the planet. We are the world!!
(ok, how DO you spell rhythyms..)
Intelligent men know this. They are drawn to us, for this. We are drawn to their smell:):):):):):)
Where the heck is kestrel? I hope I didn't piss her off, somehow. I hope she's ok. Bit worried about her, with her friend's troubles.
darn bitchy loud-mouthed impulsive red-head...
I am.
Thanks for letting me let it out.
Kind readers, all.
I'm back! Course I wouldn't get offended by you, silly girl! I'm brunette, but have decided I wanna be an honorary redhead. Hair dye here I come!
Just been so busy trying to get taxes done and all the stupid winter stuff....The book is by Noel Jackson! Got my copy out to make sure. I knew so little when I first read it that it was like trying to study greek without a translator, but my Morgan helped me get it.
I'm starting to get over the nasty chemo brain, so am just champing at the bit to get out and work my horses, and myself. Got this long tall high headed Morab....blue roan dark grey with weird mahogany tigerstripes...groundwork done and he's 4 now...oh for joy!
whoo-HOO, you're BACK!!
RIGHT, Noel Jackson. I lent it to my old students... I want it back.
Hey, I read it like thirty five million times or something. It sinks in so slow:) Damn memory. What memory!
GoLightly knew it off by heart.
Oh, my that harse sounds nice.
Cool. Stripes?
Way cool. May I haz?
Glad your brain is de-fuzzing. A four year old beauty will do it!
To Spring, and Young Horses.
I think it would skeer the heck outta men, if all women went red. Look OUT:)
Yeah, let's start a massive hair-change movement. That'll do it:)
gotta work for a living..
Clairol natural Instincts in Pecan- Auburn with red highlights- JUST finished my roots as we speak.
Yep, did the chest pain thing also from internalizing- No thyroid issues at all. Lovely little drug they give for the anxiety.
Wish I could just write it down and let it rip- too afraid of hurting someone's feelings- But God knows I would probably feel better to pour it out- maybe I will think about a private blog-
Kestrel- any pics of this marvelous animal?
Nccatnip , sounds pretty
As far as your feelings and starting a blog to vent ...Let er rip! share if you want or not, there are lots of us out there that have "got your back "if you need it.
Got pics, but have to go through them and scan them and figure out to post them....my mission after getting all the tax data done! Aaargh, the stuff I just didn't get done being out of commission for 7 months. My hubby now really understands just how much I do though!
We have 2 babies expected this spring, and can't wait to see what color they'll be. My stallion is grey, arab mare is almost black, morgan is dark bay. The babies so far have been wild colors of bay to shaded grey and they change yearly. I asked my vet what color he'd call my tall boy, and his answer was "horse of a different color"!
NCC, I like that idea! Red! I read that depression is the body's natural reaction to the stress of restraining one's self from kicking the shit out of assholes that deserve it...I'm going with that. ;)
Off for a tall drink, gotta give up on data entry for tonight. The dislexya thing....*otherwise known as brain fried*
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